HAPPY NEW WEEK!
I'm in Indianapolis taking care of 5 dogs. Talk to you all later.
Everybody have a good week. Love and hugs to all.
AQ So very sorry to hear your sad news, my sympathy to you and your family. It hasn't been easy for you for a long while and so it is time to look after yourself now. xx
AQ I've just seen your post and am so very sorry. Im glad that your Daughter was with him. Remember all the good times and smile at his memory.
Thank you ALL for your words. Too tired to reply individually, I’ll just say that it is great having you here that I can “speak” to without treading on any toes. I have decided to write OH’s eulogy to avoid a disagreement between Daus. HARELADY I have stolen your final words as an ending.
Yesterday I cleared OH’s room at Nursing Home (they state we have 24 hours to do so but in fact they didn’t know he had died!). He was only made permanent last week and as I had not yet paid this month’s fees, I negotiated to pay 9 days in full now rather than wait for govt services decide their contribution.
AQ Lovely words from Harelady....a fitting tribute I am sure.
AQ: 24-hours not a lot of time, but I guess they need the room. Hope daughters will tread carefully in the days ahead. How nice that Harelady came up with the perfect ending for the eulogy. Do you have friends there who can also offer a helpful ear? Hugs and be good to yourself.
Oh, goodness - I've not been on here as very busy since we got home safely last night, & both very tired.
Such a shock for you AQ as so sudden. I'm so sorry
I can't add to the lovely words put on here already as of course he is at peace at last and you knew he was distressed at the situation as it was. Be kind to yourself and take things slowly- I'm sure your daughters will be a great help even though they are shocked themselves. But not as used to deaths as much as our generation of course.
My thoughts are with you and the family.